Agree on boundaries and how to stop
Use a clear check-in and stop signal.
Talk before introducing equipment
Discuss which items are welcome and any limits before use. Consent is specific and can be withdrawn at any time. See the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom consent guidance.
Agree on a clear way to stop
Choose a verbal and a nonverbal stop signal everyone understands. Stop immediately if asked, if a person cannot respond, or if consent becomes unclear.
Avoid unexpected changes
Explain what you intend to use before switching equipment. Do not assume permission for one item applies to another with a different surface or material.